, just as you stated, that being with Him sluohd be our one and only goal. Through everything highs and lows we need to stay close by His side. He shelters us in the palm of His hand.As a Grandma I have been where you are calmness, loving and caring those are the words that carry us through. If we get embroiled in a child's emotions it only carries us down the same path. Step back and ask for the calmness of He who calms the sea.love and blessings,Jan